I found one guide to chronological reading and I was still confused afterwards, but that really is the nature of marvel comics I guess, especially when is comes to tie ins.
Yeah! He's a charming bastard when he wants to be, and he certainly isn't one to demean women, or hit on them when they clearly haven't shown any interest. He's an occasional womaniser but not a jackass, and people don't just sleep with him for his money.