YES which is why i love it so much... steve is just such an idealist and he can't fathom how tony could not agree with him and there's this layer underneath it all as though he's sure he's done something to make tony want to act like that and disappoint him and i just absolutely love the angst that stems from this... the difference between the way we think the people we love are, and how they actually are. i just fucking love it okay i swear i'm fine (i'm not)