Yes, God, exactly. He really is like "but I'm doing the RIGHT thing, Tony, so why . . . ." and right? There's an undercurrent of that during the Armor Wars and Kree Supreme Intelligence thing, too, that whole acting as if he's sure he's done something to make Tony want to act like that, but it really has its max expression in Civil War, I think, and just. God, right? I think Steve often like . . . sees Tony differently than he is (despite how much he does love him). And just. Yes. Yes!
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