I say bullshit, because I'm with the people who think he damn well knows they won't just let him die.

Also, again, compare this to what happened with Duane Freeman's brother after Duane was killed by Kang's bomb. Tony was responsible for a lot less then, and yet he still manned up and basically said "I was wrong to assume that all the Triunes were corrupt. They weren't like their leader, they were just good people being used, and I'm sorry I was an antagonistic jerk about it for so long that we never got to clear things up before Duane died. I wasn't fair to him."

That is Tony Stark. That's a person who admits he isn't infallible, who changes course when he sees something that throws a curveball at his plans and ideas, who apologizes when he's been a jackass, who doesn't go around acting like "Oh, well, things fucked up, but I was right all along, you just didn't do things the way you should have," the way he is in that video. If being so bullheaded that you can't see the forest for the trees or admit that maybe aren't as omniscient as you'd like to think you are is supposed to be a "good" direction for Tony, then maybe it's time I stop reading the character altogether, because I can't get behind that.