ext_8615 ([identity profile] crimsonquills.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] cap_ironman2008-02-24 04:37 pm

discussion post: could they retire? would they?

Between the fact that I'm very much a happily-ever-after type of reader and writer and the fact that I find older (and by older I mean in their 50's) men hot, I've found myself frequently wondering how life would work out for Steve and Tony as they grow older. Which inevitably begs the question:

Could these two men ever actually retire from superheroing?

Eventually--even if the actual time is delayed by moderate healing factors--they are both inevitably going to get too old to do this stuff. They'll start slowing down, they won't heal as well or as quickly, they won't be able to maintain as much muscle mass...it's the natural progress of age for two guys who, despite their bizarre histories, are still human. Experience will make up the gap for awhile, but eventually they'll get to a point where it'll be retire or choose to die in the saddle, so to speak.

So, would they retire? Either of them? What would it take for them to actually give up "active duty" and take on a purely mentorship/advisory role? ('Cause you know that even if they left active duty, they'd never get out of the game 100%.)

I have a scenario in my head that I'm rather fond of, though I don't know how "realistic" it is. *g* Basically, the new breed of Avengers--to whom Steve and Tony are very much mentor/parent types--realize that Steve and Tony really are getting too old for this game and that they're going to get themselves killed if they don't take a step back. But the newer, young Avengers also realize that neither Steve nor Tony will ever take that step back for their own sake.

So they cook up a plan: Tell Steve that they're very worried about Tony, blah blah blah, but they know he'd never even consider retiring if anyone suggested it to him. But if Steve were to tell Tony that he, Steve is retiring, and that he's feeling kind of odd about it, and they've done everything together for decades, and would Tony consider coming with him, just to, you know, keep him company? Then maybe Tony would actually do it. And, of course, Steve has been worrying about Tony, too, and Steve realizes that he is getting older and maybe he does only have a couple of years left in him, and if he has to give up a couple of years to keep Tony safe, well, that's worth it, right?

And then they live happily ever after. *g*
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[identity profile] megalotro.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, you sort of... just laid out my entire planned babble right there... I definitely feel that Steve would have to be the one to instigate their 'retirement' - because he won't retire until Tony does and Tony would never let him go out without him, so he won't retire until STEVE does... I agree completely that they'd stay with training/mentoring because they could never give it up. I can totally see several (SEVERAL) 'false starts' at retiring - they retire, something comes up, they come out of retirement. Rinse and repeat.

^____^ It's entirely heartwarming.

And dang, makes me want to color my hot-old-guys pic now :P Curse you!

-Tro

[identity profile] 0bscurity.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
I totally agree about the 'false starts' - I think they would both just be way to incredibly 'duty-bound' if you will for so long that, even if the threat wasn't actually directed at them, they'd be way to concerned to let the Young Avengers go at it by themselves. Like parents who are handing the keys over to their kids when they first get their drivers license - They keep trying to brake and accelerate even in the passenger seat.

I think it would be adorable though if the Young Avengers actually did get in over their heads their first few times around and Tony and Steve would whisk in and sort everything out, because let's face it, they've still got it.
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[identity profile] megalotro.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
I totally agree about the 'false starts' - I think they would both just be way to incredibly 'duty-bound' if you will for so long that, even if the threat wasn't actually directed at them, they'd be way to concerned to let the Young Avengers go at it by themselves. Like parents who are handing the keys over to their kids when they first get their drivers license - They keep trying to brake and accelerate even in the passenger seat.

I can SO see that. *snerk*

I think it would be adorable though if the Young Avengers actually did get in over their heads their first few times around and Tony and Steve would whisk in and sort everything out, because let's face it, they've still got it.

*wibble* That's just too adorable a mental image. It really is. And the Young Avengers would be all fanboy/fangirling in that magical way that they have *heart*

-Tro

[identity profile] 0bscurity.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
"OMG, we just had to have our asses saved by a pair of sixty-year-olds! I'm going to die of shame!"

LOL, I bet it'd be like they just got their party crashed by their parents. "DAD! You're embarassing us! Go home~!"

At least with a few generations under his belt, Steve would finally have a more obvious reason to be out of touch with the new fads and the 'young people', right? XD!

[identity profile] seanchai.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
LOL, I bet it'd be like they just got their party crashed by their parents. "DAD! You're embarassing us! Go home~!"

That's perfect! Especially if Cassie is there.

[identity profile] haruka89.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
Although it would be funny if they did have to save and the day and one of the new, young Avenger is all, "OMG, we just had to have our asses saved by a pair of sixty-year-olds! I'm going to die of shame!"

At least they're sixty year old legends, right? *g* (Assuming they aren't even older when they retire; healing factors could keep them going quite a while!)


*almost spits tooth paste all over* I really shouldn't read this while brushing my teeth! *will giggle once mouth is free once more*
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[identity profile] megalotro.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
This just makes me think, "I'll do it if you do it!" "Okay, but you first!" "No, you first!" "Okay, on three..." *grins*

EXACTLY :) LOL, then the argument over who broke the agreement to retire first *snerk*

Oh yeah. It'd take a few tries. I figure the first couple of tries one of them would try to retire on their own, though. It's a lot easier not to leap out of bed for a crisis if your lover is there with you, nuzzling your neck and saying, "The kids can handle it. They can. We have to let them handle... Right?" *grins*

Yom yom, nice visual~ Mmm, if I get good enough at drawing to do a small, one page piece, I'll do that.

*utterly fails to regret this* :-P

*cough*tramp*cough*

Of course, it makes me want to write it. But my brain can't decide if they're already lovers when they retire or if the act of retiring makes them realize just how entwined they are in each other's lives and how much they really only want to be with each other.

Hmmm, tasty either way, but I think I'm pretty far toward the idea that if they've grown up enough to have the common sense to try to retire, they have the common sense to have figured out what they mean to each other :) Plus, I really, really want them to have as much time together as they can *melty*

-Tro

[identity profile] haruka89.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
if they've grown up enough to have the common sense to try to retire, they have the common sense to have figured out what they mean to each other

*snorts* Being dense about this kind of thing doesn't necessarily have anything to do with being grown up (or not grown up, as the case may be). So, uh, in what dream world do you live? And how can I get there? *grins*
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[identity profile] megalotro.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
*snorts* Being dense about this kind of thing doesn't necessarily have anything to do with being grown up (or not grown up, as the case may be). So, uh, in what dream world do you live? And how can I get there? *grins*

Hey, I would like to point out that I at no time said anything to imply that 'getting older' and 'growing up' were the same thing! But if they stopped acting like dumbasses (re: growing up) enough to figure out they should retire, I feel they would have, by that point, also figured out they love each other - since I think that's JUST a touch more obvious than them giving up the super hero gig *g*

-Tro

[identity profile] haruka89.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, I would like to point out that I at no time said anything to imply that 'getting older' and 'growing up' were the same thing!

I never thought you did. But understanding each others and their own feelings and having the common sense to know when to stop going into fights are different kinds of growing up.

since I think that's JUST a touch more obvious than them giving up the super hero gig

That would make a good poll in the MU for the Young Avengers and co! *giggles*

I feel they would have, by that point, also figured out they love each other

But that would mean that Tony's grown up enough to realize that he is allowed to be happy!

There's a simple solution, though, to the overall problem. Either they grow up enough to figure their feelings for each other or one (or more) of their friends is helpfull and points it out. Because most of theirs friends are going to realize that pining after each other for twenty-something years is getting to be ridiculous. Right? So, by the time both are old enough to reitre they would undoubtedly have somehow managed to finally get together. *grins*

[identity profile] fire-tears.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
But that would mean that Tony's grown up enough to realize that he is allowed to be happy!

Nah. You can be mature and in love and still fucked up. ;p I'd like to think that he'd have resolved some/most of his issues by that point, of course.

[identity profile] haruka89.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
Nah. You can be mature and in love and still fucked up.

*giggles*

I'd like to think that he'd have resolved some/most of his issues by that point, of course.

One can always hope, yes. *grins*

[identity profile] haruka89.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
While the rest of the Avengers watch and roll their eyes because Steve and Tony are so incredibly married.

*giggles*

Plus, I think their friends would get impatient with their clueless pining and smack them each with the clue bat long before their friends would sit them down and talk to them about retiring.

*points up* That's what I said!

*also melty* Yeah. Lots of happy years. *happy sigh at the thought*

*sighs dreamily* And now we've all arrived in the dream world in which Tony and Steve are married and have their happily ever after with or without being on active duty. *grins*
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[identity profile] megalotro.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 07:12 pm (UTC)(link)
*sifts through the discussion post emails*

Practice makes perfect? Draw lots and then take a shot at this one? *innocent*

Excuuuse me? Are you trying to unfairly bunny me into drawing you stuff again?!?!??!!!

-Tro

[identity profile] seanchai.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
Oh yeah. It'd take a few tries. I figure the first couple of tries one of them would try to retire on their own, though. It's a lot easier not to leap out of bed for a crisis if your lover is there with you, nuzzling your neck and saying, "The kids can handle it. They can. We have to let them handle... Right?" *grins*

And then they would totally get out of bed anyway, and go watch everything on the security cameras, courtesy of Stark-cam.

Of course, it makes me want to write it. But my brain can't decide if they're already lovers when they retire or if the act of retiring makes them realize just how entwined they are in each other's lives and how much they really only want to be with each other.

Oh, they're all ready together. By that point, even they'd have figured it out. Plus, I'm not sure the scenario works quite as well, otherwise.

[identity profile] haruka89.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
The kind of person Tony and Steve belong to never really retire from their jobs, though they may retire from the active parts (read: the actual fights). It's just who they are. They can't really stop.

To get Tony and Steve to really retire from active duty it either needs everyone else ganging up on them or one (or both) of them almost dying because of their age (in that case they'd both bully the other into retirement). The second is more probably, I think. Or one of them is wounded in a way that makes going into fights impossible (which is a very difficult thing to achieve in case of Extremis!Tony).

And shame on you! Now I have another plot bunny jumping around my room and I can't even see him clearly!

[identity profile] haruka89.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I do agree. (...) coping mechanism.

Well, since you already more or less said what will most probably happen, so I kept with the reason.

Or both. *wry*

Uh, yes. If they're being incredibly stubborn. Which is very likely. *headdesks*

I don't think a physical wound would realistically do it, if only because both Steve and Tony have been paralyzed at different points in canon, and they managed to find a way to go on in those situations. How much worse can you get than that??? I mean, even if they lost limbs, Tony would just make them new ones!

There is that.

I have no shame! None at all.

Obviously. *smirks*

Your vague bunny can keep my vague bunny company. *g*

Do you think that is wise? Who knows what trouble they'd make together? *giggles*

[identity profile] tavella.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 07:16 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, Steve will be training generations of superheroes, especially in hand to hand combat, until he drops dead. It's like the little old man rule in kung fu flicks -- you'll have your arrogant newbie superheroes come into the Avengers, and the old grey haired man will KICK THEIR ASSES.

All in the name of teaching them to be better heroes, of course.

[identity profile] fire-tears.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, pretty much everyone's said what I was going to, so:

Peter ages slowly, too, so he could help the youngins with their nefarious plot to keep Steve and Tony from getting themselves killed.

Of course, Steve will still have to drag Tony out of the lab at all hours of the night and morning (and probably day), because damnit, if Tony can't be in active duty, he's going to invent twice as much cool shit for the new team.

How old d'you think they'd live to be, assuming they died of old age? I'm going to say into 100+, which would probably be their equivalent of a normal person's 80 - 90 years old. Not an INSANELY long life span (y halo thar Logan), but definitely longer than average.

I mean, there are quite a few people who live to be 90+ years and they're still pretty spry. It's not a huge stretch to think that Steve and Tony, with their retarded aging and the healing factor, could reach 120 or so.

I'm pretty sure it's canon that Peter will look about thirty when he's fifty, and his body will still be pretty much at its prime when he's into his sixties.

[identity profile] elspethdixon.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
Though you could argue that (if the Extremis really does fix damage on a cellular level, like they've said in canon in a couple of places) the Extremis has the ability to confer Logan-level insanely long lifespans. You could argue that age-related damege, since it occurs gradually and slowly, could be healed just as easily by a low-level healing factor like the Super Soldier Serum's or the Extremis as by a high-level one. I.E. that the gradual damage of aging can slowly heal as it occurs so that you're in a holding pattern, but that injuries, which occur all at once and suddenly, are harder to heal.

There's no evidence either way, since nobody in Marvel has gotten old yet who wasn't old to start with (like Aunt May or Professor X), so you could pretty much do whatever you wanted with it.

[identity profile] tavella.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 07:19 am (UTC)(link)
There have been a number of futures we've seen that have strongly suggested that Steve effectively does not age, or ages *extremely* slowly, though. Earth X, 1602, I think there have been others. He does age in HoM, but that's his 'dream world', and I suspect being in his own time and growing old normally is part of his desires.

[identity profile] seanchai.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
Peter ages slowly, too, so he could help the youngins with their nefarious plot to keep Steve and Tony from getting themselves killed.

Oh yes! I hadn't though about that, but Peter would totally be in on the 'evil scheme'. In fact, he might be heading it up.

Of course, Steve will still have to drag Tony out of the lab at all hours of the night and morning (and probably day), because damnit, if Tony can't be in active duty, he's going to invent twice as much cool shit for the new team.

Yes, yes he will. Especially because though years of being happily, and essentially married to Steve will have done a lot for Tony, he'll probably still feel vaguely guilty about not contributing enough, and push himself, especially at first.

How old d'you think they'd live to be, assuming they died of old age? I'm going to say into 100+, which would probably be their equivalent of a normal person's 80 - 90 years old. Not an INSANELY long life span (y halo thar Logan), but definitely longer than average.

That sounds about right to me :).

[identity profile] axolotl-lan.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
My great grandmother still lived in her own home and took care of herself quite well into her hundred's and wasn't even in possession of a healing factor or whatever so I am with firetears somewhat since I would think Steve might pull of 135/40, Tony not so much unless he like invents stuff that keeps him going or extremis is just that good... actually.

Also, I would say to retirement, they would die in a blaze of glory something would go on and they would be brought back to life young and pretty but this time wholly aware of one another's love and show the youngin's why they are legends.

[identity profile] elspethdixon.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 03:58 am (UTC)(link)
they would die in a blaze of glory something would go on and they would be brought back to life young and pretty

Knowing comics, this is what will happen in canon if the timeline ever advances that far. That, or the wreiters will say that the Super Solder Serum and Extremis do confer Wolverine-level non-aging.

[identity profile] seanchai.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
That's pretty much exactly the way I see it happening. Of course, given healing factors, it would be a while down the road, and with a few false starts, but that's how it'd happen.

I tend to see them probably staying in the Mansion, at least part of the time, because even retired, they'd both need to be a part of things. Steve would help train the new youngsters, and Tony would help out with the tech stuff, and after a lot of yelling, they'd eventually accept that 'retired' meant that they weren't supposed to suit up every time something happened.

Actually, they'd be kind of like Jay Garret and Alan Scott from the JSA.

[identity profile] elspethdixon.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Jay Garrick (we got the spelling wrong)=the original Flash (the one with the winged helmet?). He started out as a Golden Age hero, like Alan, who is his fictional boyfriend. Some kind of screwy side effect of his powers has slowed down his aging so that he's only about 50 physically instead of 90-ish, and he and Alan essentially run the JSA together.

[identity profile] elspethdixon.livejournal.com 2008-03-03 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
Jay and Alan are totally married. Almost as married as Batman and Superman are in anything written by Jeph Loeb (most of the time, I kind of ship Batman with Catwoman and Superman with Lois and Lex, but when Jeph Loeb writes Bruce and Clark, I expect one of them to propose to the other at any moment).

[identity profile] elspethdixon.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
Realistically, if Steve didn't decide to retire and make Tony do it with him, Tony would keep going until he died (via supervillain, probably, rather than via age). Getting older wouldn't affect his abilty to do the whole superhero thing as much as it would other heroes, because he could have the armor compensate. I mean, the armor was compensating for Tony not being able to walk at one point, and being sixty and having bad knees is a lot less of a physical hurdle than paralysis. He could just keep upgrading until he'd essentially turned himself into Metallo sans kryptonite, or a Borg.

So, probably, once Danielle "Power Fist" Cage-Jones and the others have confront Steve about why they think he and Tony ought to retire, Steve's going to have to, like you said, convince Tony to do it for his (Steve's) sake.

[identity profile] elspethdixon.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Those two things do make me wonder if even Steve could convince Tony to leave "active duty" completely in favor of a mentorship role. And if Tony is capable even at higher risk, would Steve even be okay with asking?

Well, for one thing, he and Steve would never fully retire, anyway. I think they'd more likely just drop down to "reserve" status and start training the younger Avengers -- but they'd both suit up and pitch in any time something really big went down and the younger generation needed back-up.

And I, too, could see Tony eventually playing some kind of Oracle-like role.

[identity profile] runenklinge.livejournal.com 2008-02-25 06:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I have an idea I don´t think all of you remembered:
With the Extremis, couldn´t Tony simply remote-control his suit?
So that when he´s sitting in front of his house with Steve on their hollywood-swing - yelling at young people to get off his lawn...he could be fighting crime.

He would still be an active part, although not being there physically.
or he could act as information central ala Oracle from DC.
He basically is the internet.

I agree with all of you on the "retarded aging thing"...I mean, look at Fury. He´s over 100 years old (said wikipedia) and is still going on.

These two will eventually act as supervisors and as teachers for future generations. And will still kick as when needed.

[identity profile] tavella.livejournal.com 2008-03-02 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
Infinity Formula. I forget who dosed him, but him and the rest of the surviving Howling Commandoes all have it.

[identity profile] runenklinge.livejournal.com 2008-03-02 12:56 pm (UTC)(link)
And he'd be sort of zoned out at those times, I expect, not concentrating fully on the fight

I´m not so sure about that. In the last part of the Execute series numerous superheroes chased an empty suit while Tony was looking for the hacker. He seemed to manage that multi-tasking just fine.

It doesn't seem fair that Tony could fight by remote control while Steve had to retire, though
Tony could build Steve a suit he can control by a joystick or controller pad^^
But you´re right, it´s unfair.

Have they ever actually explained why Nick Fury is perpetually the same age despite still having a history in the second world war?
I read on wiki that he was once captured in WW2 and was forced to take an experimental medicine which halted his aging. He had to take it strict intervals for years (I think decades) until he had such an amount intus that he didn´t need the medicine anymore and stopped aging.

[identity profile] pandanoai.livejournal.com 2008-05-29 06:53 am (UTC)(link)
::giggles:: perfect!