I completely agree. I know she gets scared for him when he's fighting. And I know that they have come to some sort of balance about him being an absent-minded genius, flaky workaholic. But Tony IS Iron Man. He will always be the one who goes to cut the wire (or lie down on it if he has to). And I hate it that they keep showing her as someone who can't deal with it while at the same time presenting them as "relationship goals." Relationship rule #1 is you can't make the other person change.

Maybe the end of A4 will have Tony finally retire, but that's not in-character for him if trouble came knocking on Earth's door again. (Now if they had introduced Riri a few movies ago...)

Meanwhile, I'm over here fangirling over The Phone with everyone else here. :-)