Awwwww. *melts* This is the fluffiest kinky fic I've ever read. I really like the way you have the progression going from rampant speculation on Tony's kinkiness (the image of him scaring off his lovers with nipple clamps and cat o'nine tails cracked me up) to debates over how kinky Steve had to be made perfect sense...as did the conclusion. You play deftly on Tony's brokenness (oh Tony, loving you isn't bizarre, surely!) without dwelling on it too painfully...in short, I loved it. :)