errr well the thing is - because of the whole deal with Mephisto and what have you, there seems to be a psychic blindspot of people connecting Peter=Spidey. So WHAT exactly each character remembers doesn't jive with what actually happened with Peter. For example, IIRC Peter was never humiliated by Tony when he was "working" for him as he claimed in #500 (Civil War hurt aside). Since the brain-wipe, Tony can't really question him about it so I suppose he accepts it. Funny thing though - if I am understanding the whole OMIT crap they gave us, Peter should remember EVERYTHING the way it was with no alteration, but whatever...