yeah yeah i get the whole 'stereotype' thing, not cool I get it-ONLY when it becomes a stereotype in real life, yaoi fans asking real people who is uke and seme ect... I get it. For me its a fandom, and as a fandom I feel (as anyone) can pick who they want as the uke/seme for one reason or another-or both. I just wonder because its interesting to me to see how others think wen it comes to these...random..for lack of a better word; things. :) that is all, no stereotype thing involved.