Question for a new member and lover of this pair

[darkflametailz.livejournal.com]

Ok, so I have just started to get into the Steve/Tony pairing and I can't help but wonder the more I read and look at fanfics/fanart.

Who do you like best as the bottom in the relationship? Steve or Tony and WHY!? (if you like them both as top/bottom, then ignore this k?) :) or give me your thoughts-I don't care.

Personally I love Tony as a bottom because well I guess because Steve makes one awesome hot top. lol and I have a thing for Tony being hurt or 'powered over' or really because Tony is in fact a playboy and even if not hinted could be one to be with both genders and he could really just make Steve forget all his troubles with women.    

Anyways! Your thoughts-GO! 




And please know stereotypes in my opinion should NOT involve fandoms- know they can't really be separated- (blame dumb people in the world)- but to me they kinda can. I mean really it depends on the story.   

Comments

[kopernik.livejournal.com]

Sorry, but the more I see this question posed in the fandoms I dabble in, the less it makes sense to me. As long as you're getting fanfic with the dynamics you prefer, what do you care what anyone else thinks?

You see enough "I like this, and I have a hard time understanding why anyone would prefer anything but" musings, and the more it seems to be subtle pressure on authors, artists, and readers who might disagree to rethink their personal preferences. Which is uncool. (And in at least one fandom, I've seen it absolutely stated upfront and directly by a highly influential BNF. VERY uncool.)

[darkflametailz.livejournal.com]

oh, trust me it doesn't change my preference at all. I just really enjoy seeing other peoples thoughts, it gives me a lager view of the world and the people in it. Like example, by posting this question I have learned there is a difference in a 'yaoi' type anime relationship as opposed to western slash.

[kopernik.livejournal.com]

oh, trust me it doesn't change my preference at all.

That...is not really what I was getting at. But glad to hear it. I guess.

[cookiemom6067.livejournal.com]

Would you mind sharing what fandom that was? I'm just curious. I tend to run away like the knights in Monty Python and the Holy Grail from anything whiffing of fandom wank in real time (I don't like watching arguments), but I have a morbid curiosity about it anyway.

[kopernik.livejournal.com]

I'll just say it's an older fandom, this was several years back, and, from your profile, I'd say it isn't on your radar at all.