Question for a new member and lover of this pair

[darkflametailz.livejournal.com]

Ok, so I have just started to get into the Steve/Tony pairing and I can't help but wonder the more I read and look at fanfics/fanart.

Who do you like best as the bottom in the relationship? Steve or Tony and WHY!? (if you like them both as top/bottom, then ignore this k?) :) or give me your thoughts-I don't care.

Personally I love Tony as a bottom because well I guess because Steve makes one awesome hot top. lol and I have a thing for Tony being hurt or 'powered over' or really because Tony is in fact a playboy and even if not hinted could be one to be with both genders and he could really just make Steve forget all his troubles with women.    

Anyways! Your thoughts-GO! 




And please know stereotypes in my opinion should NOT involve fandoms- know they can't really be separated- (blame dumb people in the world)- but to me they kinda can. I mean really it depends on the story.   

Comments

[bradygirl_12]

Most of the pairings I enjoy alternate top and bottom, though some will express preference for one or the other. For example, with Clark/Bruce from DC, they go where the feeling takes them but in my headcanon Clark prefers the submissive role when they play that out. I figure it's because he has all this tremendous power and must be in control at all times, and this gives him a chance to give up that control with Bruce, who is a control freak, anyway. ;)

But Bruce can benefit from being the bottom, too, just for that reason, and Clark is the one he trusts to do that. I don't like rigid roles unless the characters are playing D/s or it's a slavefic and even then it can be ambiguous sometimes.