Question for a new member and lover of this pair

[darkflametailz.livejournal.com]

Ok, so I have just started to get into the Steve/Tony pairing and I can't help but wonder the more I read and look at fanfics/fanart.

Who do you like best as the bottom in the relationship? Steve or Tony and WHY!? (if you like them both as top/bottom, then ignore this k?) :) or give me your thoughts-I don't care.

Personally I love Tony as a bottom because well I guess because Steve makes one awesome hot top. lol and I have a thing for Tony being hurt or 'powered over' or really because Tony is in fact a playboy and even if not hinted could be one to be with both genders and he could really just make Steve forget all his troubles with women.    

Anyways! Your thoughts-GO! 




And please know stereotypes in my opinion should NOT involve fandoms- know they can't really be separated- (blame dumb people in the world)- but to me they kinda can. I mean really it depends on the story.   

Comments

[polly-b.livejournal.com]

I have a personal distaste for making either partner an exclusive top or bottom. I like to see equality in my m/m slash relationships and I don't like to see male characters get overly feminized, which seems to happen more often when characters are cast as exclusive bottoms. I just find that limiting. They're both men, they both have dicks, they should both get to do the fucking, IMO. Then again, I don't have to have penetration in my m/m slash to find it hot and loving, either. *shrugs*